How to turn a dream into reality?

With the arrival of spring comes hope and confidence that everything will be the way you want it to be. It’s strange why we celebrate the New Year in winter and not when it gets warmer? In the spring, we go on diets, start reading books more than ever, get things in order, establish connections and dream. But we have so many opportunities that just dreaming is not enough. Let’s not dream, but plan! How? Read below. Let’s go! Any self-respecting business coach, personal development coach, psychologist will include a chapter in their book on how to properly aim for your dream. Everyone has their own secrets and advice, but if you combine everything, you get this. 1. PP: write and imagine. A very common rule that requires a pen and paper, as well as a good imagination. Sit down and write down what you want from this life? From this week? From this year? Now imagine it all well. And constantly scroll through this movie in your head. Hang your wish list, for example, on the refrigerator, or pin it to your desk to constantly stumble upon your dreams. 2. Specificity and measurability. What are you dreaming about? A new creative job? About fame? About a wedding? About a trip? Your desires should be as specific as possible. A new job? Which one? In what field? Maybe you should get a new education for this purpose? What salary are you counting on? The goal of finding "a new highly paid job where I will be appreciated" is a failed goal. You need to dream something like this: “I want to find a job in graphic design with a monthly salary of 5 thousand dollars, I want colleagues to appreciate me for my hard work and integrity.” 3. Take small steps. If you dream of becoming a millionaire, then you need to realize that tomorrow you will not wake up showered with silver and gold (or get on that very show - is it even still on?). Decide how you want to achieve this, and take a small step every day towards your big dream. 4. Watch what you say. It’s unbelievable, but true: you are what you say. This has been tested by personal experience, so this point is really worth believing (as well as the others, of course). The more often you say something, the more likely it is that it will happen to you. This fact also works in a negative direction. For example, the more often you say that you have no money, then your income is unlikely to increase in the near future. In addition, your wishes can be heard by someone else, and this outsider, in turn, can help you. Do not be afraid to voice your wishes! 5. Set a deadline. Dreams without a deadline will remain dreams if they are not given some urgency. Unfortunately, we are designed in such a way that it is easier for us when there is some kind of deadline. Otherwise, everything will drag on for a very, very long period. Of course, there are some things that are difficult to plan, but it is worth trying to at least force the goal into a framework a little. Just do not become a bore who cannot take a step to the right or left because of her strict schedule! Flexibility is a new mandatory quality for a modern person. 6. Work together. Many people like to fight alone, shrouding their plans in a thin layer of secrecy. By acting separately, you are simply complicating your life. All psychologists say that a team can achieve unprecedented heights! Even the author of the famous book "Why Didn't Nobody Tell Me This at 20? Intensive Course on Finding Yourself in This World" (it is worth reading if you want to achieve something in life) Tina Seelig has emphasized the power of pair and team work styles several times. Try it! 7. Allow yourself to dream about silly things. This is what life is made of! Of little things, silly things and games. Allow yourself to dream about soups in pills, about a car without wheels and with pink fur on the bumper, about working as a superman... Here, Elon Musk dreams of dying on Mars (not from a collision of his ship with another planet). I think he will succeed, by the way. Maybe your crazy dream will come true too? 8. Believe. There will be difficulties and obstacles along the way, you will make hundreds of mistakes, but the main thing is to believe that everything will work out. Fall, get up, shake the sand off your hands, but keep going. Because the road is mastered by the one who walks it.